I m cynical....

Yan lian u are FINALLY around...

U certainly sounded more matured...i think i have seen much of ur growth in chracter and mind...well it's a good step forward...after all, Uni is the last step of education before facing the dark and vicious world...haha...

Who doesnt wants to be truthful? How many people can truely be one? I cannot even name totally truthful person in my mind from out of all those i know...

Everyone wears a mask to face the dark vicious world...haha...for most people, they are hypocritical and damn fake in nature, these are the EVIL men and women....some are subconciously protective of themselves...some are plainly unwilling to open up....

Basically, it's ur heart to tell, it's up to ur own sensing...


Very frequently, everyone face a situation where u need to make a decisions, often between truthful or untrue, and not good or bad...A good friend ask u go out, but u are tired? Should u obliged along or go home sleep?

If u want to be good, u will go, but u are not being true to urself...
If u want to be true, u probably have to reject a friend, which most people would feel bad...

My point is, it is near impossible in my opinion to be true and good...

The only person i heard of that i think that was true and good was Mother Teresa. And she had passed away.

But it's always easier to be seems good then true...wat is being good? It's just a means of social acceptance...so being bad actually being that's socially, u are different...

That's why u have to give it to ah lian ah beng, tatoos, dyed hair whatever they want...ask urself if u dare to do the same if u wanted to?

OF COURSE, at the end of the day, being true to urself doesnt means doing anything stupid lar...not commit offences or wat...everything should be guided by a heart, with conscious....

The only one that could answer ur question of whether u are being good to be well thought of is probably urself...

I would say in my opinion that u are just plainly good in nature that attracts praises...that's why i never wanted to be good before..."earning praises is just not my cup of coffee"...sorry i only drink tea...

The world was full of beauty. But it was mostly ruined by man. Save the remaining few.

-To answer Zhaoqi, more simple.

U said:
"These few days I've been interacting more with people I've previously only known by name and sight, or people I've never been particularly close to, and it has left me with the feeling that, perhaps given time and appropriate circumstances, we might become good friends."

U said "might"...FATE is a strange thing. If u have cherished every moment and everyone u met, u have done ur part. the rest is up to them, and fate.

After all, if u have been spending more time and thus closer to A, u would have been spending less time with B and less close to B. Simple fixed time/opportunity logic.
Our future lawyer will understand.

Cheerz